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The Movement

The Gentle Red Pen Teaching Style.

More than a book — a philosophy of teaching with deep compassion, now taught, spoken, and shared with educators everywhere.

The student is the subject that we, as teachers, must learn to master.

— the heart of it all

The introduction

Thirty years in the making.

In her own words, from the opening pages of The Gentle Red Pen.

It gives me great pleasure to write the introduction to this book. It has been in the making for over 30 years. I never imagined these lessons on teaching would be written down in book form. They developed organically, evolving from my experience. In fact, I have been living these lessons or tips for so long, I thought they were natural for everyone. It wasn’t until one day when I mentioned what I did in my classroom to various colleagues, that I realized these tips were useful and I should write them down. My hope is that a new teacher, a veteran teacher, a college student, or a teacher who just needs a shot in the educational arm might find that one idea that makes a difference for them. As an educator for most of my adult life, I have dedicated myself to helping others realize their full potential. It has been a sheer joy and pleasure to watch light bulb after light bulb go off in my classroom as I see a student grasp a new concept and make it their own. If I have had a small part in enriching their lives, then I feel I have done what I was put on this earth to do—and that is to give back. In fact, being a teacher is so fantastically rewarding that I can say for sure that the real gift is in the giving. I hope you enjoy THE GENTLE RED PEN: 101 Tips on Becoming the Teacher Who Makes a Difference. It was written with love, joy, excitement, and hope that anyone in the educational professions can touch another life and make them feel the electricity of life and learning. Celebrate your life!

“The real gift is in the giving.”
— Bibi Angola

Bibi Angola

B.A., The College of New Jersey

M.A., Seton Hall University

Core principles

Six ideas that change a classroom.

01

Teach with compassion

The red pen doesn't have to wound. Meet the student behind the grade, and lead with humanity before correction.

02

Facilitate, don't dictate

The best teachers act as facilitators rather than strict instructors — guiding students to discover rather than simply receive.

03

Cooperative learning

Classrooms work best as communities. Students learn from one another, not only from the front of the room.

04

Critical thinking

Prepare students to question, analyze, and reason — the skills that outlast any single test or subject.

05

Learning by doing

Knowledge sticks when it's practiced. Hands-on, active learning turns lessons into lasting understanding.

06

Conscious global citizens

The goal isn't test-takers. It's thoughtful people prepared to contribute to the world beyond the classroom.

The foreword

Remember the teacher who made the difference?

Davidji, Dean of Chopra Center University
DavidjiDean, Chopra Center University

Remember the special teacher who made a difference in your life? It may have been many years ago. But each of us has had that magic moment where one of our teachers stepped out of the bland shadows, grabbed our attention, sparked something within, and then inspired us to be a better student. It may have happened in kindergarten or taken as long as graduate school, but somewhere along our academic timeline, some special teacher made the difference. Bibi Angola is that special teacher... and for years, she has taught others to be better students and better teachers. In this book, she effortlessly shares her 10 core techniques, making them universal and accessible to the teaching community. The guidance in The Gentle Red Pen can help anyone who teaches to awaken that unique part of themselves and share it powerfully with others. Bibi’s tips are both creative and practical and will help teachers, managers, leaders, and parents better understand and awaken the curiosity and engagement of their “inner student” and those in their lives. For example, something as simple as placing a map in the classroom can motivate a child to explore geography and ultimately travel the world. Placing it in a work environment can help co-workers see beyond their self-imposed limitations and think beyond their previously constricted mindset. There are one hundred additional transformational “tips” that Bibi so brilliantly shares to help us awaken our inner special teacher. Her cutting-edge guidance will empower teachers everywhere to evolve themselves into better versions of themselves and their students into more engaged, interested, and connected participants in their own education process. With this book, you too can be that special teacher.

Davidji

“Thank you Bibi! for making the difference in all of our lives.”
— Davidji, closing the foreword
Dedication

I dedicate this book to my first teacher, my wonderful mother, Mrs. Rosa Lee Watson; to Mrs. Francis Stevens, my favorite English teacher; to all of the thousands of students that have allowed me to have the honor of coming into their lives; and to the many, many teachers in the world who have given so unselfishly so that others could have that light bulb experience in their lives. I love each and every one of you. This book is also dedicated to future teachers and to all those in the educational profession who have been my teachers, from preschool to graduate school; to the Metuchen School System in Metuchen, New Jersey; to Mr. Casper B. Lonesome of The College of New Jersey (formerly Trenton State College) for giving me that CHANCE; and to the dedicated and hard-working teachers and administrators of the Paramount Unified School District and the awesome students of the Paramount District who are the reason we’re all there. I also dedicate this book to my beautiful son, Rema Andaliwa Angola, for having the patience to deal with a mother who sometimes had to learn to turn off her classroom voice at home. Last, but not least, I dedicate this book to the newest joys of my heart—my beautiful grandchildren, Rema and Hannah Rose Angola.

— Bibi

Acknowledgements

No book is written alone.

Bibi’s thanks to the people who helped bring The Gentle Red Pen to life.

I have to give a very special thank you to Laurie J. Krueger for being my closest confidant, my very first reader, and the one that has had to put up with me the most while giving birth to this book. There were many days and nights that this book and were inseparable, and Laurie was left to wade in the Jacuzzi or sit in the sauna alone. I wish to also thank Mark Victor Hansen for creating the Wealthy Writer’s Wisdom Seminar. This book has been in the making for 30 years, but because of Mark’s dedication and his efforts to help writers find their voice, it only took a matter of weeks to put down on paper. A special thank you goes to Mary Langford, the Author Concierge for Mark Victor Hansen’s program, for her guidance, reading of my manuscript, suggestions, encouragement, and brainstorming of titles. I also thank my editor, Jeanne McCafferty, for her diligence, hard work, her “font nerd” fastidiousness, and overall help. For without her, this book would not have been possible. Further acknowledgement has to go to Mary, Marion, Annie, Josie, Geneva, Betty, and William. Regina, Catherine, and my mom. After my brothers and sisters listed here were also my teachers growing up, I give thanks to the Agape International Spiritual Center, Rev. Michael Bernard Beckwith, Rickie Byars Beckwith, Mama Byars, Dr. Paul Bodhise, Dr. Stephen Coates, my friend Jeff Garrison from Jet Blue Airlines, Erika Zenaida Soto Higgins (a former student) and her husband/partner, Juan Carlos Martinez, Janice Newsom, Arlene Hylton-Campbell, Dr. Elizabeth Barrett, David Krueger, Gary Krueger, Gabriela A. (Gabby) Suarez, and Pamela (Akila) Hanna. Special thanks to my sister, Regina Watson, for her wonderful, unhesitating help on the typing of this manuscript; and to Stephen Pierce from M3 for his words of advice when needed. I also thank my principal Richard Morgan, my friend and colleague Jerry King, one of the most positive people you will ever meet. Last, but not least, I thank the Sunday Collective: Adwoa Nyamekye, Shamala Sykes, Jacqueline Lucien, Erica Byrd, Michell Williams, Chuck Hicks, and Jacqueline London.

Free resources

Bring the method into your classroom.

Free unit plans, editable Word templates, and sample tips pulled straight from the book — with a special focus on Adult Education resources.

  • Free unit plans
  • Editable Microsoft Word templates
  • Sample tips pulled from the book
  • A focus on Adult Education resources
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For teachers,

by a teacher.

Subjects taught
English, ESL, History, Chess & more
Focus
Adult & at-risk education
Recognition
Teacher of the Year 2012–2013
Paramount Adult School
Educated at
The College of New Jersey
Seton Hall University
University of La Verne

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